Relationships can be tricky!  We all want ours to be loving, safe and meaningful, yet this is hard to find, develop and maintain.  In our busy world, it is easy to become disconnected from one's partner or find yourselves growing in different directions. This can lead to tension, arguing, silence and the desire to pull further away. It can make what was once a safe place feel scary and uncomfortable.  There is so much going on behind the scenes in relationships, such a large investment, and that makes communication so important and so difficult.  My goal is to assist couples in understanding the emotional needs of each individual and the unsuccessful communication patterns you are engaged in as a couple.  Having this understanding can facilitate exploration of alternate ways for couples to engage with each other and find common ground.  Sometimes this is not possible, in this case I can support you and your partner in ending the relationship.